Good morning everyone,
Today I want to touch on guardianship. Getting guardianship of a vulnerable adult is never easy. First, you have to proof that they are not capable of running their own lives and it's more difficult than you think ... FOR YOU!
It's not hard to get a guardianship when someone needs one. That's the easy part. The hard part is stripping away someone's rights, especially someone you love. Making it easier is having people you trust to make decisions with both their heads and their hearts. It's imperative that you choose your stand-by guardians carefully.
Our stand-by guardians, pictured above, were chosen for a number of reasons.
- They know and care about Ryan
- They have spent time with Ryan
- They are people of faith
- They have children so understand that not everything is okey dokey just because your child doesn't tell you about it, they will remain vigilant.
- One parent is a medical professional so can handle medical challenges that come up
- They are friends and care about my peace of mind as well.
- They will include Ryan's uncle in decision making.
Don't just list someone, and don't assume family will consent to be guardians, ask someone specific and have reasons why you are asking them. If they don't know that the system requires that your loved one have an advocate then they aren't right for your child.
Make a list of what's important to you and talk to a variety of people. People who constantly say to you, "I don't know how you do it" are not good options. They're overwhelmed just watching someone advocate.
You, of course will have your own set of criteria, just remember to be picky. This is your baby.
Good luck and prayers for a safe and healthy outcome,
Much love and joy,
Karen
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